A-Game's Extreme Goal Getters Challenge

February 14, 2024

"The discovery of one's WHY is the beginning of a life-long journey to bring significance to their life. We often set out on this journey of life with no real clue as to why we are here..."

- Allan Pease

It's easy to forget to set goals for yourself in the new year. You can find yourself living in the moment and not setting any goals for yourself. But if you don't set goals for yourself, you'll never know what you want to do with your life. You'll never know what direction you want to set for your life. When you live your life without setting goals, you're actually in limbo. You're stuck in a state where you're uncertain what direction you want to go in. Being in this state can cause you to feel stressed and like you are driving in circles going nowhere fast. Setting goals is a way to get some direction in your life. It's easy to forget to set goals for yourself. You can find yourself living in the moment and not setting any goals for yourself. But if you don't set goals for yourself, you'll never know what you want to do with your life. You'll never know what you want to. It makes it easy to determine what you want to do. If you don’t know where you want to go, how can you get there?


Goals can be set in every domain of your life, such as: Social, Health and Physical, Finance and Money, Community, Spiritual and Core Values, Academics and Career, Personal Development, and Extracurricular Activities and Fun. Decide what you want, who you want to be, what you want to do, and you can start to focus on those things. Once you do, you can choose the mechanism to accomplish them.
 
As you start this new year, follow this goal crushing method:


  1. Set three goals in each domain of your life.
  2. Narrow them down to 8 goals.
  3. Prioritize those 8 goals from 1 to 8.
  4. Focus on accomplishing your top 1 goal this year.
  5. When knock that out, start on your remaining 7 goals.
  6. Once you have completed your top 8, start working on your other goals.
  7. Choose your top 8 again from the remaining goals.
  8. Do your best to accomplish your top 8 goals within 4 months and you’ll crush all 24 of your goals for the year!


February 14, 2024
"The discovery of one's WHY is the beginning of a life-long journey to bring significance to their life. We often set out on this journey of life with no real clue as to why we are here..." - Allan Pease
February 14, 2024
"Self-worth comes from one thing – thinking that you are worthy." -Wayne Dyer Is it possible to influence people without being manipulative? When I really want something to happen and I want to enroll someone in it, I do some soul searching before I approach them about it so I don’t step into manipulation. When I am in manipulation mode, my experience is: Weird Calculated Phony & Inauthentic Dishonest Ulterior Motive Driven Secretive & Withholding I am waiting for the moment I can make the big ask...the “what’s in it for ME”. I am sure the other person can feel my discomfort and is just being kind to give me a chance. They're probably wondering why I am even being so weird about it. Underneath that “weirdness” is usually a worthiness conversation. But when I am confident and I know my worth I have no problem asking for whatever I want. And I am not crushed by a “No”. Because I understand the “No” isn’t about me. It doesn’t mean they are saying no to ME. So I don't take it personal! Manipulation is an unconscious approach to getting what we want because we don’t believe we can get it by being authentic. Manipulation is used to avoid rather than to create so instead be authentic. Here are some tips: When you want to influence someone, don’t let that be your intent! Your intent is to be in service to them, and the end result of that authenticity is influence! Don’t act out of past results, fear and unworthiness...or you’ll create hollow victories and more unworthiness. Shift your consciousness and get present to who you are authentically. Get out there and be authentic with your requests and when people choose to say “No”…don’t take it personal. Honor their “No” because saying “No” in that moment for them might just be one of their biggest breakthroughs in their own self worth.
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